Today, something happened that stayed with me long after we left the restaurant. What was supposed to be a simple family meal turned into a moment that tested my patience, my emotions, and my beliefs about kindness. We were sitting at our table, enjoying the meal and each other’s company. Our little daughter, who is… Continue reading A Lesson in Kindness and Rising Above Cruelty
Tag: Kindness
Why People Who Aren’t Happy With Themselves Are Mean to Others
It’s not always easy to understand why people treat others badly. Sometimes it seems like certain people are just mean for no reason. But if you look closer, a pattern often shows up. Many of the people who are harsh, cruel, or quick to put others down are actually struggling with something inside themselves. They’re… Continue reading Why People Who Aren’t Happy With Themselves Are Mean to Others
Minimize Pain, Maximize Pleasure, Do the Most Good
We often hear people say life is short, but many of us do not really feel its weight until something shakes us—a loss, a milestone birthday, or a quiet moment of realizing how quickly time passes. The truth is, life moves fast. We wake up, go through our routines, handle responsibilities, and suddenly years have… Continue reading Minimize Pain, Maximize Pleasure, Do the Most Good
A Scroll Through Wishes
As I scrolled through my Facebook Newsfeed today, I couldn’t help but notice how much of it is now dominated by discussions—heated, hopeful, and sometimes hostile—about the upcoming elections in the Philippines. It’s as if the platform transformed into a public plaza, buzzing with virtual voices of support, criticism, and speculation. Everyone seems to be… Continue reading A Scroll Through Wishes
It’s Not All About You
Somewhere along the road of growing up, many of us get caught in a mindset that quietly whispers, “I’m the center of this story.” We don’t always say it out loud. Often, we don’t even realize we’re thinking it. But we move through the world as though other people’s actions are about us, as though… Continue reading It’s Not All About You
Live and Let Live
Life is full of different people. We all come from different places, believe different things, and live in our own ways. No two people see the world exactly the same. And that’s okay. In fact, that’s part of what makes life interesting. But sometimes, instead of respecting those differences, we try to change others or… Continue reading Live and Let Live
True Beauty Comes From Within: A Lesson from “She Was Pretty”
“She Was Pretty” is not just another romantic comedy. It’s one of those K-dramas that leaves a mark because it shows something deeper than just love stories and makeovers. At the center of it all is one strong, important message — true beauty isn’t about how you look; it’s about who you are. In the… Continue reading True Beauty Comes From Within: A Lesson from “She Was Pretty”
Holy Week: A Time to Reflect and Reconnect
Holy Week arrives each year like a quiet whisper between the rush of everyday life. It carries with it not just spiritual meaning, but a rare opportunity to pause. For many families, especially those with young children, this week becomes a soft space in the calendar—a time for bonding, being together, and gently stepping away… Continue reading Holy Week: A Time to Reflect and Reconnect
Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
This question has been debated for centuries, and the answer isn’t as simple as choosing one side. Human nature is complex, shaped by both biology and experience. Some believe people are born good, with kindness and empathy wired into us. Others argue that selfishness and cruelty are just as natural. The truth is, we have… Continue reading Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
Everyone Has a Story
Every person we pass on the street, every stranger we barely notice, every friend, every loved one—each carries a story within them. Some stories are beautiful, filled with joy and laughter, where life unfolds smoothly, and good fortune seems to follow like a shadow. Others are woven with pain, moments of heartbreak, or battles fought… Continue reading Everyone Has a Story
My High School Friend Sharon
High school is a time filled with memories, friendships, and experiences that shape us in ways we don’t always realize at the time. Among the many people I met during those years, one classmate has remained in my thoughts through the years—Sharon. She wasn’t just a classmate; she was a friend, a kind soul whose… Continue reading My High School Friend Sharon
Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Life is full of twists and turns, and along the way, we encounter people who help us. Some provide financial support, others offer guidance, and many simply stand by us when we need them most. These people shape our journey, making sacrifices and extending kindness without expecting much in return. Yet, it is all too… Continue reading Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder
Beauty is often described as something that is universally admired and appreciated, but when it comes down to it, beauty is highly subjective. The phrase “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” suggests that what one person finds beautiful may not hold the same appeal for someone else. This idea touches upon the core… Continue reading Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder
Happy Birthday, Manang Cezil!
Today, we celebrate you. If there’s one thing you have mastered in life, it’s the art of choosing peace over conflict. While I used to let my emotions take over, saying the meanest things just to feel better, you showed me another way. You never throw words carelessly. In fact, you’re so tight-lipped in tense… Continue reading Happy Birthday, Manang Cezil!
Dreams for My Little Belle: A Future Filled with Promise and Possibility
As I cradle my little Belle in my arms, I am filled with a profound sense of wonder and possibility. The weight of her tiny form is both a reminder of how much she still has to grow and a symbol of the vast future that lies ahead. In this quiet moment, as she snuggles… Continue reading Dreams for My Little Belle: A Future Filled with Promise and Possibility
Motherhood Changed Me in So Many Ways
Before becoming a mother, my life was all about work and travel. I wanted to climb the career ladder, achieve big things, and visit famous cities around the world. Success and adventure were my biggest priorities. But everything changed the moment I became a mother. Now, my daughter comes first—before work, before travel, before anything… Continue reading Motherhood Changed Me in So Many Ways
