Dear Readers, Thank you for visiting my blog once again. It has been quite some time since I last wrote here, and the silence was not intentional. Life has a way of pulling us in directions we do not expect, and sometimes writing has to wait. My pause began with the loss of my father.… Continue reading Finding My Way Back to Words
Category: Life Musings
Crab Mentality: The Mindset That Holds Us Back
In many parts of the world, people share a story about crabs in a bucket. If you put a single crab in a bucket, it can probably climb out. But if you put several crabs together, none of them escape. As soon as one tries to climb out, the others pull it back down. No… Continue reading Crab Mentality: The Mindset That Holds Us Back
Like a Post-it Note
Post-it notes are small. They’re light, easy to overlook, and yet somehow, they’re everywhere. You’ll find them clinging to the edge of a computer monitor, tucked between book pages, or stuck to a refrigerator with a scribbled reminder. People grab them without thinking. They’re convenient, disposable, and quietly useful. And sometimes, we feel just like… Continue reading Like a Post-it Note
The Person Everyone Depends On But Rarely Thanks
There is always that one person in every workplace, family, or group of friends who seems to carry more than her share of weight. She is not the one with the highest position or the most authority, yet somehow she ends up being the one who keeps everything moving. She runs errands no one else… Continue reading The Person Everyone Depends On But Rarely Thanks
Why People Who Aren’t Happy With Themselves Are Mean to Others
It’s not always easy to understand why people treat others badly. Sometimes it seems like certain people are just mean for no reason. But if you look closer, a pattern often shows up. Many of the people who are harsh, cruel, or quick to put others down are actually struggling with something inside themselves. They’re… Continue reading Why People Who Aren’t Happy With Themselves Are Mean to Others
Why I Finally Uninstalled Facebook
I deleted Facebook from my phone during the first weeks of August, and I am curious how long I can keep it that way. It was not a dramatic decision. It did not come with a speech or a personal announcement on my wall. It was more of a quiet moment when I realized I… Continue reading Why I Finally Uninstalled Facebook
What Does “Having It All” Mean to You? Is It Attainable?
“Having it all” is a phrase we hear often, a catchy idea that seems to promise the best of everything—success, love, freedom, security, and joy. But what does it really mean? For me, and perhaps for many of us, it’s not about luxury yachts or designer closets. It’s about balance. It’s about waking up and… Continue reading What Does “Having It All” Mean to You? Is It Attainable?
Alcohol Does Not Make You a Bad Person, It Reveals the Bad Person in You
There are many sayings about alcohol. Some people believe it is a truth serum. Others see it as a poison that destroys relationships and lives. The line from the Korean drama Level Up offers a striking perspective: alcohol does not make you a bad person, it reveals the bad person in you. At first glance,… Continue reading Alcohol Does Not Make You a Bad Person, It Reveals the Bad Person in You
The Three Faces We All Carry
It is often said that human beings are complex, layered, and never quite as simple as they seem on the surface. One line from the Korean drama Level Up captures this beautifully: people live with three different personalities. The first is how you are at work, the second is how you are in your personal… Continue reading The Three Faces We All Carry
A Painting That Felt Like a Vacation
Back in 2022, when I was pregnant and visiting my OB-GYN regularly, I noticed a painting in the clinic that stopped me in my tracks. It wasn’t a dramatic piece of art filled with heavy symbolism or complex imagery. It was simple, colorful, and instantly comforting. Six women sat on the beach, their backs turned,… Continue reading A Painting That Felt Like a Vacation
The Gift of Serene Places
There are certain places in the world that have a quiet magic. You step into them, and something inside you shifts. The tension in your shoulders loosens, the noise in your head quiets down, and you feel almost as if time slows to match your heartbeat. These places can be tucked away in a busy… Continue reading The Gift of Serene Places
Live Within Your Means
Money has a way of slipping through our fingers if we are not careful. No matter how much you earn, it can feel like it is never enough if you spend without thinking. Living within your means is not just about paying bills on time. It is about building a life where your expenses match… Continue reading Live Within Your Means
Freedom Has a Price Tag: Why Financial Independence Matters
I once heard Pastor Ed say something that stayed in my mind like a seed that refuses to stop growing. He said, “Let’s try our best to be independent because once we are hungry it’s easy to surrender our rights.” The more I thought about it, the more I realized how painfully true this is.… Continue reading Freedom Has a Price Tag: Why Financial Independence Matters
Minimize Pain, Maximize Pleasure, Do the Most Good
We often hear people say life is short, but many of us do not really feel its weight until something shakes us—a loss, a milestone birthday, or a quiet moment of realizing how quickly time passes. The truth is, life moves fast. We wake up, go through our routines, handle responsibilities, and suddenly years have… Continue reading Minimize Pain, Maximize Pleasure, Do the Most Good
When Life Reminds Us How Fragile It Truly Is
I heard last week that someone I once worked with has passed away. We weren’t particularly close, but back in those long office days, we shared moments—small conversations, quick laughs over work jokes, the usual rhythm of colleagues. I thought she was fine. I didn’t even know she had been sick. Maybe I missed any… Continue reading When Life Reminds Us How Fragile It Truly Is
Not Every Sorrow Belongs on Social Media
We live in an age where life’s highs and lows can be broadcast in seconds. One tap, and the world knows what you’re eating, where you’re going, and—sometimes—exactly how much you’re hurting. Social media has become a stage where both joy and grief are performed for an audience of friends, strangers, and everyone in between.… Continue reading Not Every Sorrow Belongs on Social Media
Letting Go: The Strongest Revenge of All
There are moments in life when someone lets us down, and the hurt or disappointment doesn’t come crashing in—it arrives quietly and takes its place. Whether it’s betrayal, disrespect, or being brushed aside by someone we once trusted or respected—at work, online, among friends, acquaintances, or even family—the weight of that disappointment finds its way… Continue reading Letting Go: The Strongest Revenge of All
You’re Not Behind. You’re Just Building Something That Takes Time to Matter
It’s easy to feel like you’re late. Late to succeed. Late to figure things out. Late to be noticed, to arrive, to make the impact you imagined. The world moves fast, and it seems like everyone else is already far ahead, posting achievements, announcing wins, building something spectacular — or so it looks. But the… Continue reading You’re Not Behind. You’re Just Building Something That Takes Time to Matter
Not Everyone Deserves a Front-Row Seat to Your Journey
As we grow, it becomes clearer that not everyone is meant to walk every step with us. Life has a way of revealing who’s genuinely supportive and who’s just curious. Sometimes, we confuse access with loyalty, or proximity with care. But just because someone has known you for a long time, or happens to be… Continue reading Not Everyone Deserves a Front-Row Seat to Your Journey
Even the Moon Had to Go Through Phases to Be Whole
The moon holds a quiet kind of strength. It doesn’t scream, sparkle, or compete for attention—yet its presence is undeniable. Whether it’s just a thin crescent or shining in full, the moon reminds us that change is a natural part of life, and that true beauty doesn’t rely on being flawless. The phrase “Even the… Continue reading Even the Moon Had to Go Through Phases to Be Whole
The Hidden Hands Behind Power
After watching enough period dramas, especially the historical kind, I started noticing something that goes beyond the love stories and palace rivalries. It’s this quiet, unsettling truth that keeps repeating in every story: the king may wear the crown, the president may give the speech, but they’re rarely the ones actually running things. It’s always… Continue reading The Hidden Hands Behind Power
The Day Everything Changed for 241 People
It happened on June 12, 2025. A beautiful summer afternoon in Ahmedabad, India. Air India Flight AI 171, a sleek Boeing 787‑8 Dreamliner, lifted off the runway, bound for London Gatwick. On board were 230 passengers—families, couples, dreamers, travelers—and 12 crew, all anticipating new beginnings: vacations, reunions, perhaps new lives in London, or simply going home. In… Continue reading The Day Everything Changed for 241 People
The Flowers on the Path: A Thought on Life and What Catches the Heart
There’s a scene from the Korean TV series Remember You (Hello Monster) that quietly lingers long after the credits roll. Seo In Guk’s character says something simple but striking — when you walk down a path, there are flowers you step on, flowers you pass by, and flowers that catch your eye. It’s a gentle… Continue reading The Flowers on the Path: A Thought on Life and What Catches the Heart
How Sleep—or Lack of It—Can Make You Look Older or Younger
We all want to look our best, whether it’s for a big day, a night out, or just feeling confident when we look in the mirror. While we often reach for skincare products or makeup, we tend to overlook one of the most powerful beauty tools we all have access to: sleep. Yes, real, good-quality… Continue reading How Sleep—or Lack of It—Can Make You Look Older or Younger
Someone’s Loss Is Another’s Gain: Life’s Quiet Trade-offs
There’s a phrase we all hear now and then, tossed around in casual conversation or murmured when something unexpected happens: “Someone’s loss is another’s gain.” It sounds simple, even a little detached, but within it lies a quiet truth that governs many of life’s biggest and smallest moments. This idea plays out constantly—in love, in… Continue reading Someone’s Loss Is Another’s Gain: Life’s Quiet Trade-offs
When Rain Meets Another Rain
Rain is something we all know. It taps on our windows, soaks our shoes, brings the smell of wet earth. But have you ever thought about what rain feels? Not in a poetic, imaginary way—but in the way we might project a quiet kind of life onto something so constant, so present in the background… Continue reading When Rain Meets Another Rain
Too Much Sun Makes a Desert
It’s hard not to love a sunny day. That gentle warmth on your skin, the blue sky stretching endlessly above, everything just seems a little more alive. We associate sunlight with joy, growth, clarity. Plants grow, moods lift, things get done. But what if the sun never stopped shining? What if day after day, the… Continue reading Too Much Sun Makes a Desert
The People We Just Click With
There are certain people in life you meet, and something about them just feels right. No awkward silences. No need to impress. No explaining who you are in a hundred different ways just to be understood. You just click. It’s as if your souls already know each other. It’s rare, but when it happens, it… Continue reading The People We Just Click With
The People Behind the Mask
There are people you meet in life—at work, at gatherings, sometimes even within your circle—who leave you wondering. You talk to them, you share space with them, maybe even eat lunch side by side. And yet, there’s something about them that feels… off. It’s not something they do outright. They smile when they should, they… Continue reading The People Behind the Mask
Talk To the Person, Not About the Person
It’s strange how often we talk around people instead of to them. Although we live in a world where staying connected is easier than ever—with smartphones in our pockets, social media at our fingertips, and instant messaging or video calls just a click away—we still often avoid having real, direct conversations. We talk about each… Continue reading Talk To the Person, Not About the Person
