“Having it all” is a phrase we hear often, a catchy idea that seems to promise the best of everything—success, love, freedom, security, and joy. But what does it really mean? For me, and perhaps for many of us, it’s not about luxury yachts or designer closets. It’s about balance. It’s about waking up and… Continue reading What Does “Having It All” Mean to You? Is It Attainable?
Tag: Work-Life Balance
The Unexpected Journeys of Work and Home
In life, we often make choices that seem small in the moment but later become the very reasons why we grow in ways we never imagined. Back in 2019, when we moved from living just five kilometers away from my workplace to suddenly being thirty-six kilometers away, I didn’t realize how much that shift would… Continue reading The Unexpected Journeys of Work and Home
When a Day Feels Like a Week
Today has felt like an entire week squeezed into a single stretch of sunlight. You know those days that drag on endlessly, when your brain feels like it’s been wrung out like a sponge? That’s exactly where I am right now—exhausted, mentally drained, and honestly, in desperate need of a long vacation. Not just a… Continue reading When a Day Feels Like a Week
They Won’t Ask Forever
There’s a quiet truth that settles into your heart once you become a parent—your child will not always need you the way they do right now. The tiny hands that reach for yours, the eager voices that call your name, the constant demand for your attention—it all feels endless in the moment. But it isn’t.… Continue reading They Won’t Ask Forever
The Fast-Forward Feeling of Watching Her Grow
From time to time, a colleague or two will ask, “How’s your daughter?” It’s such a simple, kind question, yet every time I’m asked, my answer always seems to carry a heavier weight than it should. I smile and say, “She’s grown so fast,” because it’s the truth—but the whole truth is something I carry… Continue reading The Fast-Forward Feeling of Watching Her Grow
The Art of Logging Off: Finding Harmony Between Hustle and Home
In a world that glorifies being busy, logging off has quietly become a radical act. The more accessible work becomes through smartphones, emails, and remote logins, the blurrier the lines grow between where your job ends and where your life begins. For many, the day doesn’t stop when they leave the office. It just changes… Continue reading The Art of Logging Off: Finding Harmony Between Hustle and Home
When Success Steals Your Evenings: Redefining Ambition Without Losing Yourself
You work hard. You care. You want to grow, do more, be more. There’s pride in that—wanting to succeed. But sometimes, the line between ambition and self-abandonment starts to fade. You tell yourself it’s just a season, just this project, just one more quarter. Before you know it, you’re always tired, always behind, always somewhere… Continue reading When Success Steals Your Evenings: Redefining Ambition Without Losing Yourself
How Company Culture Can Make or Break Your Career
When we think about building a successful career, our minds usually race toward personal ambition, skills, education, and maybe a little bit of luck. While all of these play vital roles, there’s one factor that can silently support or sabotage your career growth—company culture. It’s the invisible ecosystem that surrounds your daily work life. You… Continue reading How Company Culture Can Make or Break Your Career
Motivation at Work: More Than Just Money
Motivation at work is a fascinating topic because it means different things to different people. Some believe it comes from within, a mindset that pushes them forward no matter the circumstances. Others see it as a reaction to external rewards—higher pay, promotions, or other tangible benefits. In reality, motivation is a complex mix of attitude,… Continue reading Motivation at Work: More Than Just Money
Friendship Is a Two-Way Street
Friendship is often seen as a source of comfort, joy, and support, but it is not something that exists on its own. It requires effort, care, and reciprocity. Too often, people find themselves wondering why their friendships fade or why they feel isolated, without realizing that relationships need to be nurtured. Life gets busy, responsibilities… Continue reading Friendship Is a Two-Way Street
Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
If there’s one word that describes me, my husband would say it’s workaholic. He didn’t even hesitate when I asked. It was an instant response, almost as if he had been waiting for the question. At first, I laughed. Then, I thought about it. He’s right. I throw myself into my work with an intensity… Continue reading Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
The Time I Wish I Had More Of
If I could wish for one thing every day, it would be more time with my daughter while she’s still young. Every moment feels fleeting, and I often wonder how different things might have been if I had more time to spend with her in these early years. She’s only two years and one month… Continue reading The Time I Wish I Had More Of
Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
Burnout isn’t just feeling tired. It isn’t something a weekend getaway or a quick self-care routine can fix. It’s deeper, heavier, and more exhausting than most people realize. It sneaks up slowly, draining your energy, motivation, and even your sense of self. And yet, we often downplay it, telling ourselves to push through, stay productive,… Continue reading Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
The Best Age to Have a Child: 20s, 30s, or 40s?
Deciding when to have a child is one of the biggest life choices a person can make. Some become parents in their early 20s, while others wait until their 30s or even 40s. Each stage of life comes with unique advantages and challenges when it comes to raising a child. There’s no perfect time, but… Continue reading The Best Age to Have a Child: 20s, 30s, or 40s?
Striking a Balance Between Ambition and Well-Being in Your Career
In today’s fast-paced world, ambition is often viewed as a driving force behind success. We are constantly encouraged to push ourselves further, achieve more, and reach new heights in our careers. However, amidst the pursuit of career goals and personal growth, it’s crucial to maintain a sense of well-being. Finding the right balance between ambition… Continue reading Striking a Balance Between Ambition and Well-Being in Your Career
Balancing It All: Motherhood, Work, and a Busy Household
Life with a two-year-old is a constant balancing act. Between managing a household, leading a collections team at work, and being a wife, every day is carefully planned yet always unpredictable. My husband and I both have demanding jobs—he leads his own team, and I manage mine. At the same time, we are raising a… Continue reading Balancing It All: Motherhood, Work, and a Busy Household
Ten Simple Yet Effective Life Principles
Building a Home Early: A Key to Stability and Family Happiness One of the most rewarding achievements in life is owning a home, whether it’s in the rural or urban setting. But the true value of building your own house isn’t about achieving it at 50. Starting early in life, as early as possible, is… Continue reading Ten Simple Yet Effective Life Principles
The First Night Away from My Daughter: A Rollercoaster of Emotions
Last night was a moment I knew would come, but I wasn’t fully prepared for. It was my first night away from my daughter for work—a business trip that required me to leave the one little person I hold most dear in this world. I’ve always enjoyed traveling, but this time, the excitement was overshadowed… Continue reading The First Night Away from My Daughter: A Rollercoaster of Emotions
A Special Desk Journey for My Husband’s Home Office
Both my husband and I work for the same company, but with our hybrid work schedules—three days at home and two days in the office—our home offices have become our main spaces for getting work done. Recently, though, my office had to relocate to the same location where my husband works. This move provided us… Continue reading A Special Desk Journey for My Husband’s Home Office
Finding Balance: Cherishing Weekends and Generous Leave in Germany for Family Time
In Germany, where I work, I’ve come to appreciate something that may seem simple but has a huge impact on my life: weekends and generous vacation days. As an employee, having two days off every week and 30 days of annual leave has really improved my work-life balance, especially when it comes to spending quality… Continue reading Finding Balance: Cherishing Weekends and Generous Leave in Germany for Family Time
Navigating Working Time Regulations in Germany
Germany is known for its well-structured labor laws, ensuring that employees are treated fairly, have work-life balance, and are protected from exploitation in the workplace. One key aspect of this framework is the regulation of working hours, which are designed to promote efficiency and well-being while safeguarding employees’ rights. Understanding these regulations is essential for… Continue reading Navigating Working Time Regulations in Germany
Empowering Parenthood: Maternity and Parental Leave in Germany
Parenthood is a life-changing experience, bringing with it joy, responsibility, and a host of new challenges. For working parents in Germany, one of the most significant aspects of adjusting to life with a new child is navigating the system of maternity and parental leave. Germany is known for its robust family support system, designed to… Continue reading Empowering Parenthood: Maternity and Parental Leave in Germany
A Summer to Remember in Dublin
In the summer of 2018, I found myself in the heart of Dublin, Ireland, on a two-month business trip that seamlessly blended professional responsibilities with personal celebrations. July and August became a transformative period for me, not just in assisting colleagues through a crucial transition but also in exploring the vibrant landscapes and rich culture… Continue reading A Summer to Remember in Dublin
