Today, something happened that stayed with me long after we left the restaurant. What was supposed to be a simple family meal turned into a moment that tested my patience, my emotions, and my beliefs about kindness. We were sitting at our table, enjoying the meal and each other’s company. Our little daughter, who is… Continue reading A Lesson in Kindness and Rising Above Cruelty
Tag: Respect
Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
A post has been going around lately—written by a Filipino teacher—that struck a chord with many. It speaks about the frustration of not being able to discipline students anymore without being labeled abusive, of feeling powerless, of fearing backlash for simply doing what was once considered “normal.” The post paints a picture of a generation… Continue reading Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
A Paper Bag of Jollibee and a Broken Heart
I came across a post on Facebook that quickly went viral. It told the story of a woman who had just given birth under heartbreaking circumstances. She labored for sixteen hours. Sixteen long, painful hours—alone. No mother, no sister, no best friend’s hand to hold. No husband’s voice to soothe her fears. Just the sterile… Continue reading A Paper Bag of Jollibee and a Broken Heart
Why Being Called “Ma’am” or “Sir” Matters to New Teachers in the Philippines
In the Philippines, becoming a licensed teacher is a huge milestone. It represents years of studying, personal sacrifice, and dedication. So it’s no surprise that many who pass the Licensure Exam for Teachers feel proud and want others to acknowledge their achievement. For some, this means asking to be called “Ma’am” or “Sir” right after… Continue reading Why Being Called “Ma’am” or “Sir” Matters to New Teachers in the Philippines
True Communication Goes Both Ways
Communication is at the heart of every relationship, whether personal or professional. It is how people connect, express their thoughts, and understand one another. Yet, many assume that simply talking is enough. True communication is not just about speaking—it is equally about listening. Without both, the message gets lost, and misunderstandings arise. A conversation is… Continue reading True Communication Goes Both Ways
When Marriage Becomes a Race to Parenthood
Marriage is a beautiful journey, a union of two people who choose to build a life together. But for many newlyweds, the joy of marriage is quickly overshadowed by an invisible weight—the relentless pressure to have children. It begins almost immediately after the wedding, sometimes even before the honeymoon ends. Relatives, friends, acquaintances, and even… Continue reading When Marriage Becomes a Race to Parenthood
The Power of Active Listening: A Skill That Transforms Conversations
In our fast-paced world, where distractions are everywhere, truly listening to someone has become rare. Many of us hear words, but we don’t always absorb their meaning. We often wait for our turn to speak rather than focus on what is being said. This is where active listening makes all the difference. It is more… Continue reading The Power of Active Listening: A Skill That Transforms Conversations
Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Life is full of twists and turns, and along the way, we encounter people who help us. Some provide financial support, others offer guidance, and many simply stand by us when we need them most. These people shape our journey, making sacrifices and extending kindness without expecting much in return. Yet, it is all too… Continue reading Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
The Harmful Impact of Constant Yelling on Children’s Mental Health
Children are like sponges, absorbing everything around them. Their world is built on experiences, interactions, and the emotions they receive from caregivers. How adults communicate with children shapes their understanding of themselves and the world. While discipline and guidance are necessary, the manner in which they are delivered makes a significant difference. Many parents and… Continue reading The Harmful Impact of Constant Yelling on Children’s Mental Health
The Struggles of Some OFWs: A Hope for a Better Future
Working abroad is often seen as a golden opportunity, a chance to earn more and provide a better life for loved ones back home. Many Filipinos leave the country with high hopes, believing that their sacrifices will lead to a brighter future. Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs), especially domestic helpers in the Middle East, take on… Continue reading The Struggles of Some OFWs: A Hope for a Better Future
The Importance of Appointments in Germany
Germany is known for its efficiency, organization, and structured way of doing things. One of the best examples of this is the importance placed on appointments. Whether it’s a doctor’s visit, a meeting with a government office, or even a haircut, having an appointment is often necessary. Unlike some countries where you can simply walk… Continue reading The Importance of Appointments in Germany
Remembering Sir Catot: A Teacher, Mentor, and Inspiration
Mr. Stanley C. Catot was one of those rare teachers who leave an unforgettable mark on their students. Though he is no longer in this world, his influence lives on, etched into the memories of those lucky enough to have been his students. He was brilliant—so sharp that it seemed like he had a photographic… Continue reading Remembering Sir Catot: A Teacher, Mentor, and Inspiration
