Somewhere along the road of growing up, many of us get caught in a mindset that quietly whispers, “I’m the center of this story.” We don’t always say it out loud. Often, we don’t even realize we’re thinking it. But we move through the world as though other people’s actions are about us, as though… Continue reading It’s Not All About You
Tag: Personal Growth
Experience What You Have Learned
Learning is a big part of life. From the moment we’re born, we start to learn—how to walk, how to talk, how to deal with people, how the world works. We learn from school, from books, from others, and from what happens around us. But one of the most important lessons in life is this:… Continue reading Experience What You Have Learned
Be Flexible With Your Goals
Life rarely goes exactly as planned. You set a goal, map out the steps, and start working toward it with determination. But somewhere along the way, things shift. Unexpected challenges pop up. Your interests evolve. What once felt like the right direction may no longer feel the same. That’s why one of the most valuable… Continue reading Be Flexible With Your Goals
Live and Let Live
Life is full of different people. We all come from different places, believe different things, and live in our own ways. No two people see the world exactly the same. And that’s okay. In fact, that’s part of what makes life interesting. But sometimes, instead of respecting those differences, we try to change others or… Continue reading Live and Let Live
Don’t Hesitate When You Should Act
There are moments in life when a decision has to be made. A step must be taken, a word must be said, a chance must be grabbed. But too often, we hesitate. We pause, overthink, and let fear or doubt hold us back. Sometimes it’s because we’re afraid of failing. Sometimes it’s because we’re waiting… Continue reading Don’t Hesitate When You Should Act
Make Every Moment Count
Time is the one thing we all have, yet never seem to have enough of. We often think we have plenty of it, especially when we’re young. We put things off, assuming there will be more chances later. We wait for the perfect moment, the right mood, or the ideal conditions. But as life moves… Continue reading Make Every Moment Count
Take Care of Your Health Early
We often take our health for granted. When we’re young, we feel unstoppable. We bounce back from sleepless nights, junk food binges, stress, and overwork without much thought. Our bodies feel like they can handle anything. But that illusion doesn’t last forever. Sooner or later, the choices we make catch up with us, and one… Continue reading Take Care of Your Health Early
Good Things Don’t Come Easy
In life, we’re often drawn to comfort. We like things that come quickly, without struggle, without waiting. But deep down, we all know that the things worth having—the things that truly matter—don’t come without effort. Good things, lasting things, require patience, hard work, and sometimes even pain. It’s a truth we learn slowly, but once… Continue reading Good Things Don’t Come Easy
Do Lead Characters Exist in Real Life, Too?
Sometimes I wonder if the world around us works like the movies and dramas we watch. The stories we see on screen always revolve around a main character, someone whose journey we follow closely. There are the struggles, the triumphs, the growth arcs. Everything builds around that one person. And everyone else? They’re there to… Continue reading Do Lead Characters Exist in Real Life, Too?
The Quiet Struggle of Feeling Behind in Life
There’s a silent weight a lot of people carry, and it sounds like this: “I should be further by now.” It’s that gnawing feeling that somehow, somewhere, you messed up. That you took the wrong path, made the wrong choices, or missed your moment. It’s not something you always say out loud. Sometimes, you don’t… Continue reading The Quiet Struggle of Feeling Behind in Life
Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Everyone says they want honesty—until they get it. It sounds good in theory, like something we should all strive for. Be real. Be honest. Be transparent. But in practice? Honesty makes people uncomfortable. Because the truth, more often than not, isn’t what people want to hear. They want comfort dressed up as truth. They want… Continue reading Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: Protecting Your Peace with Grace
There comes a point in your personal growth where protecting your peace becomes non-negotiable. Not in a dramatic, over-the-top way, but in a calm, clear, grounded way. A lot of people talk about boundaries like they’re some harsh defense mechanism—but real boundaries, the healthy kind, are actually rooted in care. For yourself, and believe it… Continue reading Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: Protecting Your Peace with Grace
When You Outgrow People You Love
One of the hardest parts of growing as a person is realizing that not everyone will grow with you. And what makes it even harder is when the people you’re outgrowing are people you still love. The ones you’ve shared history with. The ones who once felt like home. Letting go of people isn’t always… Continue reading When You Outgrow People You Love
The Voice Inside: Understanding and Building Self-Esteem
There’s a voice we all carry inside, and it speaks louder than we often realize. It comments on our choices, judges our mistakes, and decides whether we feel proud or ashamed. That voice is shaped by self-esteem—the way we view and value ourselves. It’s not about arrogance or confidence that shouts, but about a quiet,… Continue reading The Voice Inside: Understanding and Building Self-Esteem
When Success Steals Your Evenings: Redefining Ambition Without Losing Yourself
You work hard. You care. You want to grow, do more, be more. There’s pride in that—wanting to succeed. But sometimes, the line between ambition and self-abandonment starts to fade. You tell yourself it’s just a season, just this project, just one more quarter. Before you know it, you’re always tired, always behind, always somewhere… Continue reading When Success Steals Your Evenings: Redefining Ambition Without Losing Yourself
Building Your Personal Brand Within Your Company
When most people think about personal branding, their mind goes straight to influencers or entrepreneurs building massive online followings. But branding isn’t just for the public eye. In fact, one of the most impactful places to build your personal brand is right inside your company. Whether you’re working at a startup or a large corporation,… Continue reading Building Your Personal Brand Within Your Company
Prevention is Better Than Cure: A Lesson for Life
We often hear the phrase “prevention is better than cure” when talking about health. It is a simple idea that avoiding illness is easier, cheaper, and less painful than treating it after it arrives. But this wisdom does not belong only to the world of medicine. It extends to nearly every aspect of life. Whether… Continue reading Prevention is Better Than Cure: A Lesson for Life
Are You a Worrier?
Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, thoughts racing, going over every possible outcome of a situation? Do you anticipate problems before they even have a chance to arise? If you find yourself constantly caught in a loop of “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios, you might just be a worrier. Worrying is not… Continue reading Are You a Worrier?
What Makes a Person Truly Unique?
People often say that everyone is unique, but what does that really mean? Is it just about appearance, talents, or the way we think? I believe a person’s uniqueness comes from a mix of many things—some we are born with, some we develop, and some shaped by the world around us. It’s not just about… Continue reading What Makes a Person Truly Unique?
High Heels to Sneakers
There was a time when high heels were a part of my daily life. In the Philippines, wearing them to work felt natural, effortless even. I didn’t have to walk long distances, thanks to “pedicabs” (tricycles) readily available on every corner or the convenience of my husband dropping me off and picking me up. The… Continue reading High Heels to Sneakers
You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
Not everyone you meet in life will like you. Some will never like you, no matter what you do. And that is completely okay. It is an unavoidable part of being human. Yet, too often, we let this truth trouble us. We wonder what we did wrong, if we could have been different, or if… Continue reading You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
Are You Thriving, Struggling, or Suffering?
Life is a constant journey through ups and downs. Some days, everything feels effortless, like the world is working in your favor. Other times, it’s a battle just to get through the day. But how do you truly know where you stand? Are you thriving, merely struggling, or deeply suffering? Understanding this distinction can help… Continue reading Are You Thriving, Struggling, or Suffering?
The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
At some point in life, we all encounter people who talk behind our backs. It could be in the workplace, among friends, within the family, or even in casual social circles. The moment we realize that someone has been speaking about us when we’re not around, it stings. It makes us question their intentions, our… Continue reading The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
There Is a Time for Everything
I have always believed that everything in life happens at the right time. But I won’t deny that I often question the timeline I have. Sometimes, it feels like everything I want is always delayed. I plan, I work hard, I set goals, and yet things don’t always unfold when I expect them to. It… Continue reading There Is a Time for Everything
The Evolution of a Dreamer
I honestly can’t remember what I wanted to be when I was five. Maybe I had a dream job back then, maybe I didn’t. But if I did, it has completely faded from my memory. What I do remember, though, is that as I got older, my ambitions started taking shape, influenced by the world… Continue reading The Evolution of a Dreamer
Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Happiness is something we all chase, yet it often feels like an unpredictable visitor. Some people seem naturally happy no matter what happens, while others struggle to find joy even in favorable conditions. This raises a question that has been debated for ages: Is happiness a personal choice, or is it shaped by the circumstances… Continue reading Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
This question has been debated for centuries, and the answer isn’t as simple as choosing one side. Human nature is complex, shaped by both biology and experience. Some believe people are born good, with kindness and empathy wired into us. Others argue that selfishness and cruelty are just as natural. The truth is, we have… Continue reading Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
Public speaking is one of those skills that can open doors, create opportunities, and leave a lasting impression on people. It’s an ability that some seem to possess naturally, effortlessly commanding attention with every word they say. For me, however, it has become a challenge over time. I wish I could confidently stand in front… Continue reading The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
If there’s one word that describes me, my husband would say it’s workaholic. He didn’t even hesitate when I asked. It was an instant response, almost as if he had been waiting for the question. At first, I laughed. Then, I thought about it. He’s right. I throw myself into my work with an intensity… Continue reading Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
Mastering the Skill of Learning How to Learn
In a world where knowledge is constantly evolving, the ability to learn efficiently is more valuable than ever. Many people believe that intelligence or talent determines success, but in reality, learning is a skill that can be developed. The key is not just studying harder but understanding how to learn effectively. Once we master this… Continue reading Mastering the Skill of Learning How to Learn
