In many parts of the world, people share a story about crabs in a bucket. If you put a single crab in a bucket, it can probably climb out. But if you put several crabs together, none of them escape. As soon as one tries to climb out, the others pull it back down. No… Continue reading Crab Mentality: The Mindset That Holds Us Back
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When It Feels Heavy, Count Your Blessings
Life doesn’t always go the way we plan. There are times when the weight of everything you’re hoping for seems too much to carry. You try, you wait, you push, but things don’t happen the way you imagined. It might be your career not taking off the way you thought it would, or your personal… Continue reading When It Feels Heavy, Count Your Blessings
The Quiet Power of the People Around Us
We don’t always notice it happening. It’s subtle, slow, and often goes unspoken. But the people we spend time with—their energy, their behavior, their outlook—start to shape us. Not because we’re weak-minded or lack a sense of self. Not because we’re trying to copy anyone. Simply because we’re human. And being human means we are… Continue reading The Quiet Power of the People Around Us
Born Poor, Die Poor: Is It Really Your Fault?
There’s a quote I’ve heard countless times, and every time I hear it, it hits differently: “If you’re born poor, it’s not your fault. But if you die poor, it is.” At first, it feels harsh. Almost cold. But when you sit with it for a while, peel it apart, and really think deeply, you… Continue reading Born Poor, Die Poor: Is It Really Your Fault?
Failure Is a Blessing
Failure is one of those words that makes people uncomfortable. It carries weight, shame, and disappointment. Nobody wants to fail, and most of us try our best to avoid it. But life has a strange way of teaching us that failure isn’t always the enemy. In fact, it’s often the very thing that shapes us.… Continue reading Failure Is a Blessing
The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
There’s a version of self-growth that’s packaged nicely for social media. It’s filtered through warm lighting, framed by aesthetically pleasing journal pages, and hashtagged with words like #selfcare and #mindset. This version is neat, organized, and affirming. But the truth? Real self-growth isn’t always so pretty. In fact, most of the time, it’s messy, unflattering,… Continue reading The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
Are You a Worrier?
Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, thoughts racing, going over every possible outcome of a situation? Do you anticipate problems before they even have a chance to arise? If you find yourself constantly caught in a loop of “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios, you might just be a worrier. Worrying is not… Continue reading Are You a Worrier?
The Freedom of Not Caring About Gossip
There was a time when gossip would get under my skin. If I heard people talking about me, making assumptions, or spreading rumors, I would feel a deep sense of anger. I saw them as people with nothing better to do, filling their time by meddling in the lives of others. It frustrated me, and… Continue reading The Freedom of Not Caring About Gossip
The Four Rooms Model: Understanding Change and Growth
Change is a constant part of life, whether in personal growth, relationships, or the workplace. However, people experience change in different ways, and their reactions can determine success or failure. The Four Rooms Model, also known as the Four Rooms of Change, helps explain how individuals and organizations move through different emotional and mental states… Continue reading The Four Rooms Model: Understanding Change and Growth
