Relatives Should Be Near Enough But Far Enough

There’s a saying that “familiarity breeds contempt.” When it comes to family, that couldn’t be more accurate in certain situations. Don’t get it wrong—relatives are important. They’re part of your roots, your story, your support system when life throws a punch. But like anything in life, balance is key. Having them too close—geographically or emotionally—can… Continue reading Relatives Should Be Near Enough But Far Enough

Don’t Fall for a Cheater

It can feel flattering when someone gives you attention, especially if he is already in a committed relationship. You might tell yourself that there must be something special about you—something irresistible—if he’s willing to sneak around and risk everything just to be near you. But let’s get one thing straight: don’t be delusional. If someone… Continue reading Don’t Fall for a Cheater

Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: Protecting Your Peace with Grace

There comes a point in your personal growth where protecting your peace becomes non-negotiable. Not in a dramatic, over-the-top way, but in a calm, clear, grounded way. A lot of people talk about boundaries like they’re some harsh defense mechanism—but real boundaries, the healthy kind, are actually rooted in care. For yourself, and believe it… Continue reading Setting Boundaries Without Guilt: Protecting Your Peace with Grace

When You Outgrow People You Love

One of the hardest parts of growing as a person is realizing that not everyone will grow with you. And what makes it even harder is when the people you’re outgrowing are people you still love. The ones you’ve shared history with. The ones who once felt like home. Letting go of people isn’t always… Continue reading When You Outgrow People You Love