In many parts of the world, people share a story about crabs in a bucket. If you put a single crab in a bucket, it can probably climb out. But if you put several crabs together, none of them escape. As soon as one tries to climb out, the others pull it back down. No… Continue reading Crab Mentality: The Mindset That Holds Us Back
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Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
A post has been going around lately—written by a Filipino teacher—that struck a chord with many. It speaks about the frustration of not being able to discipline students anymore without being labeled abusive, of feeling powerless, of fearing backlash for simply doing what was once considered “normal.” The post paints a picture of a generation… Continue reading Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
Not Everyone Deserves a Front-Row Seat to Your Journey
As we grow, it becomes clearer that not everyone is meant to walk every step with us. Life has a way of revealing who’s genuinely supportive and who’s just curious. Sometimes, we confuse access with loyalty, or proximity with care. But just because someone has known you for a long time, or happens to be… Continue reading Not Everyone Deserves a Front-Row Seat to Your Journey
A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
Have you ever stopped to really look at flowers? I don’t mean glancing at them on your way to work or noticing a bouquet in a vase. I mean actually observing them—how each one opens in its own time, stretches toward the light, and stands tall, not to outshine the others, but simply to be… Continue reading A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
Born Poor, Die Poor: Is It Really Your Fault?
There’s a quote I’ve heard countless times, and every time I hear it, it hits differently: “If you’re born poor, it’s not your fault. But if you die poor, it is.” At first, it feels harsh. Almost cold. But when you sit with it for a while, peel it apart, and really think deeply, you… Continue reading Born Poor, Die Poor: Is It Really Your Fault?
Be Flexible With Your Goals
Life rarely goes exactly as planned. You set a goal, map out the steps, and start working toward it with determination. But somewhere along the way, things shift. Unexpected challenges pop up. Your interests evolve. What once felt like the right direction may no longer feel the same. That’s why one of the most valuable… Continue reading Be Flexible With Your Goals
The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
There’s a version of self-growth that’s packaged nicely for social media. It’s filtered through warm lighting, framed by aesthetically pleasing journal pages, and hashtagged with words like #selfcare and #mindset. This version is neat, organized, and affirming. But the truth? Real self-growth isn’t always so pretty. In fact, most of the time, it’s messy, unflattering,… Continue reading The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Everyone says they want honesty—until they get it. It sounds good in theory, like something we should all strive for. Be real. Be honest. Be transparent. But in practice? Honesty makes people uncomfortable. Because the truth, more often than not, isn’t what people want to hear. They want comfort dressed up as truth. They want… Continue reading Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
When You Outgrow People You Love
One of the hardest parts of growing as a person is realizing that not everyone will grow with you. And what makes it even harder is when the people you’re outgrowing are people you still love. The ones you’ve shared history with. The ones who once felt like home. Letting go of people isn’t always… Continue reading When You Outgrow People You Love
Raising a Mentally Tough Child: Building Resilience and Strength
Mental toughness is one of the most valuable traits a child can develop. It helps them face challenges, handle disappointments, and push through difficulties without giving up. In a world that is unpredictable and often demanding, fostering this quality in children is crucial. But mental toughness doesn’t happen overnight—it is built through daily experiences, guidance,… Continue reading Raising a Mentally Tough Child: Building Resilience and Strength
Mastering the Skill of Learning How to Learn
In a world where knowledge is constantly evolving, the ability to learn efficiently is more valuable than ever. Many people believe that intelligence or talent determines success, but in reality, learning is a skill that can be developed. The key is not just studying harder but understanding how to learn effectively. Once we master this… Continue reading Mastering the Skill of Learning How to Learn
The Power of a Growth Mindset
The way we think about our abilities and potential can shape the course of our lives. This is where the concept of a growth mindset comes into play. Coined by psychologist Carol Dweck, the term describes the belief that abilities, intelligence, and talents can be developed through effort, learning, and persistence. It’s a simple yet… Continue reading The Power of a Growth Mindset
Don’t Be Angry with the Rain; It Simply Does Not Know How to Fall Upwards
Sometimes, life presents us with situations that leave us feeling frustrated, upset, or even angry. We may find ourselves questioning why things happen the way they do, often thinking that things should have unfolded differently. However, much like the rain, the world operates according to its own rules, and sometimes the way things are is… Continue reading Don’t Be Angry with the Rain; It Simply Does Not Know How to Fall Upwards
You Want Respect at Work, But You Don’t Respect the Work
Let’s have an honest conversation. You want respect at work. You want your boss to value your voice. You want your team to treat you like your presence matters. And you should want those things—every employee deserves to be treated with respect. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: some people demand respect without showing they respect… Continue reading You Want Respect at Work, But You Don’t Respect the Work
Nurturing Confidence in Our Babies
Encouraging confidence in our babies is a beautiful journey that begins from the very first moments of their lives. As parents, we play a crucial role in fostering a sense of self-assurance that will stay with them as they grow. Here are some simple yet powerful ways to nurture confidence in our little ones. Firstly,… Continue reading Nurturing Confidence in Our Babies
