It’s not always easy to understand why people treat others badly. Sometimes it seems like certain people are just mean for no reason. But if you look closer, a pattern often shows up. Many of the people who are harsh, cruel, or quick to put others down are actually struggling with something inside themselves. They’re… Continue reading Why People Who Aren’t Happy With Themselves Are Mean to Others
Tag: Confidence
A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
Have you ever stopped to really look at flowers? I don’t mean glancing at them on your way to work or noticing a bouquet in a vase. I mean actually observing them—how each one opens in its own time, stretches toward the light, and stands tall, not to outshine the others, but simply to be… Continue reading A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
Walk Your Own Path
Life is full of noise. Everyone seems to have an opinion about how you should live, what you should do, and who you should become. From a young age, we’re given ideas about success, happiness, and what’s “normal.” We’re told to follow a certain timeline, check off certain boxes, and blend in. But one of… Continue reading Walk Your Own Path
True Beauty Comes From Within: A Lesson from “She Was Pretty”
“She Was Pretty” is not just another romantic comedy. It’s one of those K-dramas that leaves a mark because it shows something deeper than just love stories and makeovers. At the center of it all is one strong, important message — true beauty isn’t about how you look; it’s about who you are. In the… Continue reading True Beauty Comes From Within: A Lesson from “She Was Pretty”
The Voice Inside: Understanding and Building Self-Esteem
There’s a voice we all carry inside, and it speaks louder than we often realize. It comments on our choices, judges our mistakes, and decides whether we feel proud or ashamed. That voice is shaped by self-esteem—the way we view and value ourselves. It’s not about arrogance or confidence that shouts, but about a quiet,… Continue reading The Voice Inside: Understanding and Building Self-Esteem
High Heels to Sneakers
There was a time when high heels were a part of my daily life. In the Philippines, wearing them to work felt natural, effortless even. I didn’t have to walk long distances, thanks to “pedicabs” (tricycles) readily available on every corner or the convenience of my husband dropping me off and picking me up. The… Continue reading High Heels to Sneakers
You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
Not everyone you meet in life will like you. Some will never like you, no matter what you do. And that is completely okay. It is an unavoidable part of being human. Yet, too often, we let this truth trouble us. We wonder what we did wrong, if we could have been different, or if… Continue reading You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
Raising a Mentally Tough Child: Building Resilience and Strength
Mental toughness is one of the most valuable traits a child can develop. It helps them face challenges, handle disappointments, and push through difficulties without giving up. In a world that is unpredictable and often demanding, fostering this quality in children is crucial. But mental toughness doesn’t happen overnight—it is built through daily experiences, guidance,… Continue reading Raising a Mentally Tough Child: Building Resilience and Strength
The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
Public speaking is one of those skills that can open doors, create opportunities, and leave a lasting impression on people. It’s an ability that some seem to possess naturally, effortlessly commanding attention with every word they say. For me, however, it has become a challenge over time. I wish I could confidently stand in front… Continue reading The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
The Harmful Impact of Constant Yelling on Children’s Mental Health
Children are like sponges, absorbing everything around them. Their world is built on experiences, interactions, and the emotions they receive from caregivers. How adults communicate with children shapes their understanding of themselves and the world. While discipline and guidance are necessary, the manner in which they are delivered makes a significant difference. Many parents and… Continue reading The Harmful Impact of Constant Yelling on Children’s Mental Health
Chasing Dreams: A Path for All, Regardless of Background
Dreams are what keep us moving forward. They give us purpose, motivation, and the strength to push through difficult times. No matter where we come from or what circumstances we were born into, dreams belong to all of us. Some people grow up with opportunities handed to them, while others have to fight for every… Continue reading Chasing Dreams: A Path for All, Regardless of Background
The Experiences That Shaped My Growth
Life has a way of teaching us, not through textbooks or lectures, but through experiences that challenge and transform us. When I reflect on what helped me grow the most, I see a collection of defining moments—some expected, others surprising. Each one shaped my perspective, strengthened my resilience, and deepened my understanding of myself and… Continue reading The Experiences That Shaped My Growth
If I Could Be Someone Else for a Day, I Would Be Taylor Swift
If I had the chance to step into someone else’s life for just one day, I would choose to be Taylor Swift. She is an extraordinary woman—smart, incredibly talented, beautiful, and standing tall in every sense of the word. She has built a career that is not just about music but about storytelling, connection, and… Continue reading If I Could Be Someone Else for a Day, I Would Be Taylor Swift
