Delegation is one of those words that often makes people think of leadership seminars, corporate training sessions, or motivational posters about teamwork. In reality, it is something that shows up in almost every aspect of life. We all face the choice between doing something ourselves or asking someone else to take it on. Parents delegate… Continue reading Delegation and the Johari Window: Finding Clarity in Work and Communication
Tag: Communication
Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
A post has been going around lately—written by a Filipino teacher—that struck a chord with many. It speaks about the frustration of not being able to discipline students anymore without being labeled abusive, of feeling powerless, of fearing backlash for simply doing what was once considered “normal.” The post paints a picture of a generation… Continue reading Correction Is Not Abuse, and Leadership Is Not About Fear
Grateful for the Pause: A Public Holiday to Catch My Breath
It’s not even the end of the week, but I’m feeling especially grateful for today. A public holiday. It sounds simple on the surface. But this one is landing like a lifeline. A pause in a calendar that has barely allowed time to think, let alone rest. Burnout doesn’t feel far away anymore. It’s circling… Continue reading Grateful for the Pause: A Public Holiday to Catch My Breath
Talk To the Person, Not About the Person
It’s strange how often we talk around people instead of to them. Although we live in a world where staying connected is easier than ever—with smartphones in our pockets, social media at our fingertips, and instant messaging or video calls just a click away—we still often avoid having real, direct conversations. We talk about each… Continue reading Talk To the Person, Not About the Person
The Quickest Way to Show Who You Really Are Is by Opening Your Mouth
It’s funny how quickly people reveal themselves, often without even realizing it. They think they’re hiding behind fashion, filters, or carefully curated social media profiles. They stand straight, smile wide, maybe even rehearse a version of themselves they want the world to see. But the moment they speak, the truth comes out. Instantly. Words spill… Continue reading The Quickest Way to Show Who You Really Are Is by Opening Your Mouth
Why Being Called “Ma’am” or “Sir” Matters to New Teachers in the Philippines
In the Philippines, becoming a licensed teacher is a huge milestone. It represents years of studying, personal sacrifice, and dedication. So it’s no surprise that many who pass the Licensure Exam for Teachers feel proud and want others to acknowledge their achievement. For some, this means asking to be called “Ma’am” or “Sir” right after… Continue reading Why Being Called “Ma’am” or “Sir” Matters to New Teachers in the Philippines
Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Everyone says they want honesty—until they get it. It sounds good in theory, like something we should all strive for. Be real. Be honest. Be transparent. But in practice? Honesty makes people uncomfortable. Because the truth, more often than not, isn’t what people want to hear. They want comfort dressed up as truth. They want… Continue reading Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Prevention is Better Than Cure: A Lesson for Life
We often hear the phrase “prevention is better than cure” when talking about health. It is a simple idea that avoiding illness is easier, cheaper, and less painful than treating it after it arrives. But this wisdom does not belong only to the world of medicine. It extends to nearly every aspect of life. Whether… Continue reading Prevention is Better Than Cure: A Lesson for Life
True Communication Goes Both Ways
Communication is at the heart of every relationship, whether personal or professional. It is how people connect, express their thoughts, and understand one another. Yet, many assume that simply talking is enough. True communication is not just about speaking—it is equally about listening. Without both, the message gets lost, and misunderstandings arise. A conversation is… Continue reading True Communication Goes Both Ways
The Invisible Complexity of Simple Things
There’s something I’ve always found fascinating: how people often overlook the hidden complexity in things that seem simple. We live in a world where so much is taken for granted, and yet, beneath the surface, there’s an entire layer of depth that most people never stop to think about. It’s not just about science, history,… Continue reading The Invisible Complexity of Simple Things
Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
Every day, people make judgments—about events, people, and even themselves. These judgments shape decisions, conversations, and relationships. Yet, two people can look at the same situation and interpret it in entirely different ways. This difference in perception is not just a matter of opinion; it is influenced by psychology, experience, and even biology. Understanding why… Continue reading Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
The Fishbowl Model: A Simple Approach to Learning and Collaboration
The Fishbowl model is an innovative and dynamic approach to learning and collaboration. It is widely used in educational settings, corporate training, and group discussions. Its beauty lies in its simplicity and flexibility. By using a small group of people to discuss a topic while others observe, the Fishbowl method allows for an engaging exchange… Continue reading The Fishbowl Model: A Simple Approach to Learning and Collaboration
The SCARF Model: Understanding Human Social Behavior
The SCARF model is a powerful tool for understanding human behavior, especially in social and workplace settings. Developed by neuroscientist David Rock, this model explains five key domains that influence how people react to situations and interact with others. These five factors—Status, Certainty, Autonomy, Relatedness, and Fairness—shape human motivation, decision-making, and emotional responses. By understanding… Continue reading The SCARF Model: Understanding Human Social Behavior
Nurturing Intelligence: Signs of a Bright Beginning in Your Baby
Babies are fascinating little learners, and parents often wonder when and how to know if their baby is showing signs of being smart. The journey of discovering a baby’s intelligence is more like observing a blooming flower – gradual and filled with unique moments. One of the early signs of a smart baby is their… Continue reading Nurturing Intelligence: Signs of a Bright Beginning in Your Baby
Nurturing Mental Health Postpartum: A Vital Step for New Mothers
The postpartum period is often portrayed as a time of joy, with new mothers bonding with their babies, but for many, it can also be a period of emotional and mental challenges. It’s not uncommon for new mothers to experience feelings of exhaustion, stress, or even anxiety and depression after childbirth. Nurturing mental health during… Continue reading Nurturing Mental Health Postpartum: A Vital Step for New Mothers
