It is often said that human beings are complex, layered, and never quite as simple as they seem on the surface. One line from the Korean drama Level Up captures this beautifully: people live with three different personalities. The first is how you are at work, the second is how you are in your personal… Continue reading The Three Faces We All Carry
Tag: Authenticity
Too Much Sun Makes a Desert
It’s hard not to love a sunny day. That gentle warmth on your skin, the blue sky stretching endlessly above, everything just seems a little more alive. We associate sunlight with joy, growth, clarity. Plants grow, moods lift, things get done. But what if the sun never stopped shining? What if day after day, the… Continue reading Too Much Sun Makes a Desert
A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
Have you ever stopped to really look at flowers? I don’t mean glancing at them on your way to work or noticing a bouquet in a vase. I mean actually observing them—how each one opens in its own time, stretches toward the light, and stands tall, not to outshine the others, but simply to be… Continue reading A Flower Doesn’t Compete. It Just Blooms
The Quickest Way to Show Who You Really Are Is by Opening Your Mouth
It’s funny how quickly people reveal themselves, often without even realizing it. They think they’re hiding behind fashion, filters, or carefully curated social media profiles. They stand straight, smile wide, maybe even rehearse a version of themselves they want the world to see. But the moment they speak, the truth comes out. Instantly. Words spill… Continue reading The Quickest Way to Show Who You Really Are Is by Opening Your Mouth
The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
There’s a version of self-growth that’s packaged nicely for social media. It’s filtered through warm lighting, framed by aesthetically pleasing journal pages, and hashtagged with words like #selfcare and #mindset. This version is neat, organized, and affirming. But the truth? Real self-growth isn’t always so pretty. In fact, most of the time, it’s messy, unflattering,… Continue reading The Uncomfortable Truth About Self-Growth
Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
Everyone says they want honesty—until they get it. It sounds good in theory, like something we should all strive for. Be real. Be honest. Be transparent. But in practice? Honesty makes people uncomfortable. Because the truth, more often than not, isn’t what people want to hear. They want comfort dressed up as truth. They want… Continue reading Why Most People Don’t Really Want Honesty
You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
Not everyone you meet in life will like you. Some will never like you, no matter what you do. And that is completely okay. It is an unavoidable part of being human. Yet, too often, we let this truth trouble us. We wonder what we did wrong, if we could have been different, or if… Continue reading You Don’t Need to Be Liked by Everyone
The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
At some point in life, we all encounter people who talk behind our backs. It could be in the workplace, among friends, within the family, or even in casual social circles. The moment we realize that someone has been speaking about us when we’re not around, it stings. It makes us question their intentions, our… Continue reading The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
Wanderlust Diary
Travel has been a big part of our lives for more than ten years. It all started in 2013, when my husband and I decided to explore Europe together. We didn’t have a long list or a strict plan. We just wanted to see the world—one city at a time. That first trip changed something… Continue reading Wanderlust Diary
Breaking Free from Beauty Standards: How They Affect Self-Esteem of Filipinas
In the Philippines where I came from, beauty standards play a significant role in how people perceive themselves and others. Society has a clear image of what is considered beautiful—fair skin, slim bodies, straight hair, and features that align with Western ideals. This definition of beauty is often showcased in media, advertising, and even on… Continue reading Breaking Free from Beauty Standards: How They Affect Self-Esteem of Filipinas
