One of the hardest parts of growing as a person is realizing that not everyone will grow with you. And what makes it even harder is when the people you’re outgrowing are people you still love. The ones you’ve shared history with. The ones who once felt like home. Letting go of people isn’t always… Continue reading When You Outgrow People You Love
Category: Real Talk
How Money Dysmorphia is Quietly Shaping a Generation
It’s hard to scroll through Instagram or TikTok without seeing someone boarding a private jet, unboxing luxury bags, eating at some five-star restaurant, or casually talking about investing in properties like it’s as easy as ordering takeout. And somewhere between the third video of a 22-year-old buying their “dream car” and the eighth “day in… Continue reading How Money Dysmorphia is Quietly Shaping a Generation
The Luck of the Draw: Parents, Children, and the Unspoken Truths of Family
Not every child is born into a home filled with love, support, and comfort. Some children come into the world already carrying the weight of their parents’ hardships, mistakes, or absence. These children grow up too fast, forced to understand pain before they ever get to feel joy fully. Their days are often shaped by… Continue reading The Luck of the Draw: Parents, Children, and the Unspoken Truths of Family
Why I Hardly Have Filipino Friends in Germany
Living abroad as a Filipina is a unique journey. It comes with a mix of pride, struggles, new beginnings, and silent choices that are not always easy to explain. When people hear that I live in Germany, they often assume I’m surrounded by a big Filipino community, meeting up every weekend for get-togethers, cooking Filipino… Continue reading Why I Hardly Have Filipino Friends in Germany
The Disparity in Wealth: Exploring Why Some Are Rich, Others Middle Class, and the Rest Live in Poverty
The world has always been a place of contrasts, and one of the most noticeable differences is the gap between the rich, the middle class, and the poor. Some people live in luxury, traveling the world and buying whatever they desire, while others struggle to afford basic needs. In between, there is the middle class,… Continue reading The Disparity in Wealth: Exploring Why Some Are Rich, Others Middle Class, and the Rest Live in Poverty
The Hidden Truth About Multi-Level Marketing and Pyramid Schemes
A pyramid scheme is a business model that relies primarily on recruiting new members rather than selling actual products or services. The money flows from the bottom to the top, making it nearly impossible for most participants to make a profit. Over time, these schemes collapse because recruitment eventually slows down, leaving the majority of… Continue reading The Hidden Truth About Multi-Level Marketing and Pyramid Schemes
The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
At some point in life, we all encounter people who talk behind our backs. It could be in the workplace, among friends, within the family, or even in casual social circles. The moment we realize that someone has been speaking about us when we’re not around, it stings. It makes us question their intentions, our… Continue reading The People Who Talk Behind Our Backs and How to Handle Them
When Marriage Becomes a Race to Parenthood
Marriage is a beautiful journey, a union of two people who choose to build a life together. But for many newlyweds, the joy of marriage is quickly overshadowed by an invisible weight—the relentless pressure to have children. It begins almost immediately after the wedding, sometimes even before the honeymoon ends. Relatives, friends, acquaintances, and even… Continue reading When Marriage Becomes a Race to Parenthood
Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Happiness is something we all chase, yet it often feels like an unpredictable visitor. Some people seem naturally happy no matter what happens, while others struggle to find joy even in favorable conditions. This raises a question that has been debated for ages: Is happiness a personal choice, or is it shaped by the circumstances… Continue reading Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
This question has been debated for centuries, and the answer isn’t as simple as choosing one side. Human nature is complex, shaped by both biology and experience. Some believe people are born good, with kindness and empathy wired into us. Others argue that selfishness and cruelty are just as natural. The truth is, we have… Continue reading Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
Burnout isn’t just feeling tired. It isn’t something a weekend getaway or a quick self-care routine can fix. It’s deeper, heavier, and more exhausting than most people realize. It sneaks up slowly, draining your energy, motivation, and even your sense of self. And yet, we often downplay it, telling ourselves to push through, stay productive,… Continue reading Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
Why Toxic Positivity Is Making Things Worse
We’ve all heard the phrases: “Just stay positive!” “Everything happens for a reason.” “Look on the bright side!” They sound harmless, even well-meaning. But what if these words, instead of helping, are actually making things worse? This is where toxic positivity comes in—the idea that no matter how bad things get, you should always maintain… Continue reading Why Toxic Positivity Is Making Things Worse
Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
Every day, people make judgments—about events, people, and even themselves. These judgments shape decisions, conversations, and relationships. Yet, two people can look at the same situation and interpret it in entirely different ways. This difference in perception is not just a matter of opinion; it is influenced by psychology, experience, and even biology. Understanding why… Continue reading Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
Love Comes Out of the Window When Poverty Knocks at the Door
Love is often thought of as an unbreakable bond, a force that can withstand any challenge. Romantic movies and fairy tales tell us that true love conquers all. But reality has a way of testing even the strongest emotions, and nowhere is this more evident than when financial hardship takes hold. Many couples start their… Continue reading Love Comes Out of the Window When Poverty Knocks at the Door
Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Life is full of twists and turns, and along the way, we encounter people who help us. Some provide financial support, others offer guidance, and many simply stand by us when we need them most. These people shape our journey, making sacrifices and extending kindness without expecting much in return. Yet, it is all too… Continue reading Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
The Best Age to Have a Child: 20s, 30s, or 40s?
Deciding when to have a child is one of the biggest life choices a person can make. Some become parents in their early 20s, while others wait until their 30s or even 40s. Each stage of life comes with unique advantages and challenges when it comes to raising a child. There’s no perfect time, but… Continue reading The Best Age to Have a Child: 20s, 30s, or 40s?
The Struggles of Some OFWs: A Hope for a Better Future
Working abroad is often seen as a golden opportunity, a chance to earn more and provide a better life for loved ones back home. Many Filipinos leave the country with high hopes, believing that their sacrifices will lead to a brighter future. Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs), especially domestic helpers in the Middle East, take on… Continue reading The Struggles of Some OFWs: A Hope for a Better Future
Facebook Likes
The digital world has given us many ways to connect, but it has also introduced new, sometimes unexpected, social expectations. One of those is the importance of Facebook likes. To some, a like is just a quick tap on the screen. To others, it’s a sign of acknowledgment, validation, and even friendship. For some people,… Continue reading Facebook Likes
OFW Culture: A Blessing or a Social Problem?
Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) play a crucial role in the Philippine economy, sending billions of pesos in remittances each year. Their financial contributions help families afford better homes, education, and healthcare, making a significant difference in their loved ones’ lives. Many OFWs take great pride in their ability to provide for their families despite the… Continue reading OFW Culture: A Blessing or a Social Problem?
Cancel Culture in Korea: Accountability or Public Shaming?
Cancel culture has become one of the most debated social phenomena in recent years. While it exists in many countries, South Korea’s version of cancel culture is particularly intense. It is swift, unforgiving, and often leaves little room for redemption. Unlike in the West, where public figures might slowly rebuild their careers, being “canceled” in… Continue reading Cancel Culture in Korea: Accountability or Public Shaming?
South Korea’s Work Culture: Productivity or Overwork?
South Korea has earned a reputation for its high levels of productivity and its thriving economy, but this success comes at a significant cost. The country’s work culture is infamous for its long hours, intense dedication, and a constant drive for excellence. While this culture has contributed to South Korea’s rapid economic growth, it has… Continue reading South Korea’s Work Culture: Productivity or Overwork?
The K-pop Industry: Inspiration or Exploitation?
The K-pop industry has grown into a global phenomenon, with millions of fans across the world. From catchy songs and intricate dance routines to fashionable outfits and stunning visuals, K-pop idols have captured the hearts of people everywhere. However, behind the glitz and glamour of the K-pop world lies a darker side. The intense pressure… Continue reading The K-pop Industry: Inspiration or Exploitation?
Korea’s Beauty Standards: Empowerment or Oppression?
South Korea has become a global trendsetter in beauty, influencing everything from skincare to cosmetic surgery. The rise of K-pop and K-dramas has made Korean beauty ideals well-known worldwide. Many admire the flawless, youthful, and polished looks of Korean celebrities, and these ideals have shaped what is considered attractive in Korean society. While some see… Continue reading Korea’s Beauty Standards: Empowerment or Oppression?
Ethical Dilemmas in Modern Life
In an increasingly complex world, ethical dilemmas have become more common and difficult to navigate. Advances in technology, shifting societal norms, and global interconnectedness present new challenges that require careful thought and moral reasoning. Every day, individuals and organizations face decisions that test their values, from privacy concerns in the digital age to the impact… Continue reading Ethical Dilemmas in Modern Life
Unpopular Opinions on Societal Norms
Societal norms shape our behavior, values, and expectations, often without us even realizing it. They dictate how we dress, work, interact, and live our lives. While many of these norms provide structure and stability, some may be outdated, unnecessary, or even harmful. Challenging them can be uncomfortable, as people tend to resist ideas that go… Continue reading Unpopular Opinions on Societal Norms
The Experiences That Shaped My Growth
Life has a way of teaching us, not through textbooks or lectures, but through experiences that challenge and transform us. When I reflect on what helped me grow the most, I see a collection of defining moments—some expected, others surprising. Each one shaped my perspective, strengthened my resilience, and deepened my understanding of myself and… Continue reading The Experiences That Shaped My Growth
Do You Believe in Fate or Destiny?
There are times in life when everything seems to fall into place perfectly, almost as if the universe had planned it all out. Some moments feel too surreal to be random, and in these moments, I find myself wondering: is it all fate or destiny at play? For me, I truly believe in both. I… Continue reading Do You Believe in Fate or Destiny?
Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder
Beauty is often described as something that is universally admired and appreciated, but when it comes down to it, beauty is highly subjective. The phrase “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” suggests that what one person finds beautiful may not hold the same appeal for someone else. This idea touches upon the core… Continue reading Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder
Why People Prefer iPhones and Samsungs: A Personal Perspective
In today’s smartphone world, iPhones and Samsungs dominate the market, each with its own group of dedicated fans. As someone who uses both, I get to enjoy the unique features each brand brings to the table. It’s clear that people gravitate toward these phones for different reasons, but when you take a closer look, the… Continue reading Why People Prefer iPhones and Samsungs: A Personal Perspective
Breaking Free from Beauty Standards: How They Affect Self-Esteem of Filipinas
In the Philippines where I came from, beauty standards play a significant role in how people perceive themselves and others. Society has a clear image of what is considered beautiful—fair skin, slim bodies, straight hair, and features that align with Western ideals. This definition of beauty is often showcased in media, advertising, and even on… Continue reading Breaking Free from Beauty Standards: How They Affect Self-Esteem of Filipinas
