I have always believed that everything in life happens at the right time. But I won’t deny that I often question the timeline I have. Sometimes, it feels like everything I want is always delayed. I plan, I work hard, I set goals, and yet things don’t always unfold when I expect them to. It… Continue reading There Is a Time for Everything
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The Evolution of a Dreamer
I honestly can’t remember what I wanted to be when I was five. Maybe I had a dream job back then, maybe I didn’t. But if I did, it has completely faded from my memory. What I do remember, though, is that as I got older, my ambitions started taking shape, influenced by the world… Continue reading The Evolution of a Dreamer
Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Happiness is something we all chase, yet it often feels like an unpredictable visitor. Some people seem naturally happy no matter what happens, while others struggle to find joy even in favorable conditions. This raises a question that has been debated for ages: Is happiness a personal choice, or is it shaped by the circumstances… Continue reading Happiness: A Choice or a Product of Circumstances?
Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
This question has been debated for centuries, and the answer isn’t as simple as choosing one side. Human nature is complex, shaped by both biology and experience. Some believe people are born good, with kindness and empathy wired into us. Others argue that selfishness and cruelty are just as natural. The truth is, we have… Continue reading Are People Inherently Good or Evil?
Why Bigger Oceans Have Larger Waves
Life often mirrors nature in ways we don’t always notice. One of those ways is captured in the idea that bigger oceans have larger waves. It’s a simple observation about water, but it carries a deeper truth about life, challenges, and the way we grow through struggle. Oceans are vast, open, and powerful. The larger… Continue reading Why Bigger Oceans Have Larger Waves
The Invisible Complexity of Simple Things
There’s something I’ve always found fascinating: how people often overlook the hidden complexity in things that seem simple. We live in a world where so much is taken for granted, and yet, beneath the surface, there’s an entire layer of depth that most people never stop to think about. It’s not just about science, history,… Continue reading The Invisible Complexity of Simple Things
Everyone Has a Story
Every person we pass on the street, every stranger we barely notice, every friend, every loved one—each carries a story within them. Some stories are beautiful, filled with joy and laughter, where life unfolds smoothly, and good fortune seems to follow like a shadow. Others are woven with pain, moments of heartbreak, or battles fought… Continue reading Everyone Has a Story
The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
Public speaking is one of those skills that can open doors, create opportunities, and leave a lasting impression on people. It’s an ability that some seem to possess naturally, effortlessly commanding attention with every word they say. For me, however, it has become a challenge over time. I wish I could confidently stand in front… Continue reading The Power of Public Speaking: A Skill I Wish I Had
Nothing Beats a Beautiful Sunny Day
Weather comes in many forms—rainy, snowy, stormy, windy, foggy—but among them all, sunny weather stands out as the most inviting and uplifting for me. Each type of weather has its own charm and purpose. Rain nourishes the earth, snow creates winter wonderlands, and storms remind us of nature’s power. But when the sky is clear,… Continue reading Nothing Beats a Beautiful Sunny Day
Berliners and Their Many Toppings
Berliners are a classic treat, especially on Rosenmontag. These soft, jam-filled doughnuts are a favorite for many, though I don’t eat them often because they’re quite sweet. Every year, my company offers them to employees, always sticking to the traditional version—fluffy dough, fruit filling, and a dusting of powdered sugar. My two-year-old daughter loves Berliners.… Continue reading Berliners and Their Many Toppings
Springtime Work Bliss on Our Terrace
As the chill of winter fades and the first warm breezes of spring arrive, I find myself drawn to a new workspace—our terrace. It’s a simple shift, but one that changes the rhythm of my work-from-home days in the best way possible. Instead of being confined within four walls, I now have the option to… Continue reading Springtime Work Bliss on Our Terrace
Why I Don’t Find It Practical to Buy Flowers
Flowers are beautiful. There’s no denying that. A bouquet can brighten a room, a single bloom can warm a heart, and the gesture of giving flowers carries a certain charm that has lasted through centuries. I do appreciate the sentiment behind receiving flowers, especially from my husband on special occasions like Valentine’s Day, my birthday,… Continue reading Why I Don’t Find It Practical to Buy Flowers
My Daughter’s First Tricycle Ride
Watching my two-year-old daughter ride her tricycle on her own for the first time made me incredibly happy today. It was such a simple moment, yet it felt so special. For the longest time, she had either been uninterested or too afraid to ride by herself. My husband and I had always been the ones… Continue reading My Daughter’s First Tricycle Ride
Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
If there’s one word that describes me, my husband would say it’s workaholic. He didn’t even hesitate when I asked. It was an instant response, almost as if he had been waiting for the question. At first, I laughed. Then, I thought about it. He’s right. I throw myself into my work with an intensity… Continue reading Workaholic: A Word That Defines Me
No Ink for Me
Tattoos are a form of self-expression that many people love. I respect those who choose to have them, and I understand the meaning and personal significance they can hold. Some people get tattoos to mark important events, remember loved ones, or simply because they appreciate the art. But for me, tattoos have never been something… Continue reading No Ink for Me
The Time I Wish I Had More Of
If I could wish for one thing every day, it would be more time with my daughter while she’s still young. Every moment feels fleeting, and I often wonder how different things might have been if I had more time to spend with her in these early years. She’s only two years and one month… Continue reading The Time I Wish I Had More Of
A Little Superstitious, Sometimes Not
Am I superstitious? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on the situation. If something seems obviously untrue, I don’t believe it. But there are moments when a small part of me hesitates, wondering, what if? I like to think of myself as logical. If someone tells me a black cat crossing my path will bring… Continue reading A Little Superstitious, Sometimes Not
My High School Friend Sharon
High school is a time filled with memories, friendships, and experiences that shape us in ways we don’t always realize at the time. Among the many people I met during those years, one classmate has remained in my thoughts through the years—Sharon. She wasn’t just a classmate; she was a friend, a kind soul whose… Continue reading My High School Friend Sharon
Managing Emotions in Times of Stress and Uncertainty
Life is full of surprises, and not all of them are pleasant. Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where everything feels uncertain. The future seems blurry, decisions become harder, and emotions take over. It could be a sudden change in work, a personal crisis, or an unexpected turn of events that shakes our sense of… Continue reading Managing Emotions in Times of Stress and Uncertainty
Luxury Shopping Spree: A Dream Experience
Imagine stepping into a world where every storefront glistens with elegance, where the scent of fine leather and high-end perfumes fills the air, and where the very act of shopping feels like an experience crafted for the senses. This is the kind of shopping spree I dream of—one that takes place either in the designer… Continue reading Luxury Shopping Spree: A Dream Experience
The Best Compliment I’ve Ever Received: “You Are a Racehorse”
Compliments come and go, but some stay with us forever. They don’t just make us smile for a moment; they shift something deep inside us. The best ones don’t flatter—they reveal. When my previous supervisor told me, “You are a racehorse,” I didn’t know what to say. It was my first job in Germany, my… Continue reading The Best Compliment I’ve Ever Received: “You Are a Racehorse”
The Ultimate Cross-Country Adventure: Why Traveling by Car is Our Best Choice
There’s something magical about a road trip. The idea of traveling across the country, watching the landscape change outside the window, and having the freedom to stop whenever we want makes it an adventure like no other. For me, the choice of transportation is clear—a car. Nothing else offers the same sense of independence, comfort,… Continue reading The Ultimate Cross-Country Adventure: Why Traveling by Car is Our Best Choice
Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
Burnout isn’t just feeling tired. It isn’t something a weekend getaway or a quick self-care routine can fix. It’s deeper, heavier, and more exhausting than most people realize. It sneaks up slowly, draining your energy, motivation, and even your sense of self. And yet, we often downplay it, telling ourselves to push through, stay productive,… Continue reading Let’s Talk About Burnout – For Real
Why Toxic Positivity Is Making Things Worse
We’ve all heard the phrases: “Just stay positive!” “Everything happens for a reason.” “Look on the bright side!” They sound harmless, even well-meaning. But what if these words, instead of helping, are actually making things worse? This is where toxic positivity comes in—the idea that no matter how bad things get, you should always maintain… Continue reading Why Toxic Positivity Is Making Things Worse
Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
Every day, people make judgments—about events, people, and even themselves. These judgments shape decisions, conversations, and relationships. Yet, two people can look at the same situation and interpret it in entirely different ways. This difference in perception is not just a matter of opinion; it is influenced by psychology, experience, and even biology. Understanding why… Continue reading Understanding Judgments: Why People See Things Differently
Love Comes Out of the Window When Poverty Knocks at the Door
Love is often thought of as an unbreakable bond, a force that can withstand any challenge. Romantic movies and fairy tales tell us that true love conquers all. But reality has a way of testing even the strongest emotions, and nowhere is this more evident than when financial hardship takes hold. Many couples start their… Continue reading Love Comes Out of the Window When Poverty Knocks at the Door
The Octopus Within Me
If I had to compare myself to an animal, I would choose the octopus. It may not be the first creature that comes to mind when people think of self-reflection, but to me, it represents qualities I see in myself—adaptability, intelligence, independence, and a touch of mystery. The octopus is a fascinating being, not bound… Continue reading The Octopus Within Me
Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Life is full of twists and turns, and along the way, we encounter people who help us. Some provide financial support, others offer guidance, and many simply stand by us when we need them most. These people shape our journey, making sacrifices and extending kindness without expecting much in return. Yet, it is all too… Continue reading Don’t Bite the Hand That Feeds You, or That Once Fed You
Losing Myself in the Flow
There are moments when time disappears, and I find myself completely immersed in what I’m doing. It’s not a conscious effort; it just happens. The world around me fades, and the only thing that exists is the task at hand. I suppose that’s the essence of truly enjoying something—when it pulls you in so deeply… Continue reading Losing Myself in the Flow
The Importance of Not Burning Bridges
In both professional and personal life, relationships play a crucial role in shaping opportunities, growth, and overall well-being. The phrase “burning bridges” refers to cutting ties in a way that makes it difficult or impossible to reconnect in the future. While it may sometimes feel necessary to walk away from certain people or situations, doing… Continue reading The Importance of Not Burning Bridges
