In the Philippines, becoming a licensed teacher is a huge milestone. It represents years of studying, personal sacrifice, and dedication. So it’s no surprise that many who pass the Licensure Exam for Teachers feel proud and want others to acknowledge their achievement. For some, this means asking to be called “Ma’am” or “Sir” right after passing—even if they haven’t started working as teachers yet.
To them, the title is more than just a word. It symbolizes success, validation, and the end of a long, difficult journey. It’s a way of saying, “I made it.” And in a society where professional status is often tied to respect, being called “Ma’am” or “Sir” can feel like finally getting the recognition they’ve worked so hard for.
However, this doesn’t always sit well with others. When someone starts asking friends, relatives, or neighbors to call them by a title before they’ve even entered the classroom, it can feel strange or forced. Some people find it awkward, even annoying. They might say, “Hindi ka pa naman nagtuturo,” or “Hindi mo ako estudyante.” What was meant as a moment of pride can quickly turn into a point of conflict.
There have even been viral posts online where newly licensed teachers insisted on being addressed as “Ma’am” or “Sir,” sparking heated reactions from netizens. Many were critical, saying it seemed boastful or “feeling entitled.” For a culture that deeply values humility, especially among peers and within communities, this kind of behavior doesn’t always sit well. People respect success, but they also expect those who succeed to stay grounded.
Some argue that titles should come with the job, not just the license. That until someone starts working in a classroom, it might be better to hold off on the formalities. Others feel that if the person earned the title, they have the right to use it anytime. Both sides have a point.
Sometimes, it’s not even the person themselves demanding the title—it’s their family. Proud parents who supported their child’s education want to celebrate the moment. They’ll tell others, “Tawagin mo siyang Ma’am. Teacher na ’yan.” It’s not always about showing off; sometimes it’s just pride and joy spilling over.
Still, in personal and casual settings, asking for a title too soon can make relationships feel less genuine. It can create distance where there used to be closeness. A friend or cousin who used to call you by your nickname may now feel unsure of how to talk to you, just because of a title.
At the heart of it, this is about more than just words. It’s about how we balance pride and humility, achievement and connection. It’s okay to be proud. It’s okay to want recognition. But sometimes, letting people naturally show their respect—without demanding it—goes a much longer way.
Being called “Ma’am” or “Sir” is nice, but real respect comes from how you treat others. Whether you’re already in the classroom or just getting ready to start, what matters most is staying humble, kind, and true to who you are. Because in the end, the title means more when it’s backed by action—not just a piece of paper.
