Writing has always been my way of expressing myself. There’s something about putting my thoughts into words that helps me process emotions, reflect on my experiences, and even escape when life feels overwhelming. Blogging, in particular, has become more than just a hobby—it’s a space where I can be myself, where I can share my thoughts freely without pressure or expectations.
Whenever I feel stressed or my mind is cluttered with too many thoughts, I turn to writing. It helps me shift my focus, giving me something to do instead of letting my worries take over. Late at night, when my daughter is finally asleep and I can’t seem to fall asleep myself, I find comfort in coming up with topics to write about. I think about the things that have been on my mind, the small moments that made my day, or even random ideas that suddenly seem interesting. It’s my way of keeping myself occupied, of making use of the quiet hours when the rest of the world feels still.
My husband and I talk a lot about life—our current situation, what needs to change, and what goals we should set for the short and long term. Sometimes, we dream about where we could go for a long vacation or where we can unwind, just the three of us. Other times, we talk about what’s happening in the world, with him being the one who updates me on current affairs. Our conversations are important, a way to stay connected, but we also respect the need for our own space afterward.
For him, that means watching Facebook reels or funny videos on YouTube to relax. For me, it depends. If there’s a good Korean drama that catches my interest, I let myself get lost in it. But if nothing seems appealing, I turn to blogging. Writing allows me to be creative, to express my thoughts in a way that feels meaningful. It’s a different kind of escape—one where I can reflect, document my experiences, and even connect with others who might relate to what I share.
Blogging has become more than just an activity to pass the time. It’s a way for me to stay grounded, to have something that is truly mine amid the busyness of daily life. It gives me a sense of purpose, a way to unwind, and a chance to turn my thoughts into something tangible. And in those quiet moments, when everyone else is asleep and the world feels at rest, writing reminds me that even in the chaos of everyday life, I can always find a way to center myself.
